A draft of something I am working on
Using Social Media for defusing a problem:
What is a problem ? What is Hate ?
Hate come’s from disliking something for over a period of time, as the idea of dis likeness deposit’s in people’s minds, slowly and gradually it becomes and converts into hate.
People who hate something, block their own mind towards listening anything on that subject, and not just that subject most of the times we will see that the same people also are blocked on many other subjects or dislike them also.
I found people who are afraid of one thing, they are also afraid of other similar things.
For example i found people who are afraid of Muslims, Jews, media, govt, they were all mostly the same people who found problems of some kind in all these things, not just one, and it all comes from Fear.
How to cure it ?
Just like a puss in a pimple, which needs to come out, similarly if we can channelize this hate to come out some way where the person can feel that HE SHOWED IT to the other party, hate also defuses it self,
I found that when i let people talk bad or take out what they hate in some form on my Facebook wall, they argue and they argue, and if they do not block each other, i have found that they become tolerant of that person eventually, as they see that that person is not that bad as they thought they were, and eventually they become accepting of that person or ideology
I have been creating war’s on my Facebook wall, i would write something on my wall as a question, and people of both sides would jump in and start talking and usually 2 or 4 or 6 people start talking and taking sides and they keep on presenting their point of views, and eventually they end up becoming Facebook friends, which changes everything in my opinion, as now their tank of hate is all of a sudden empty, and they are cured and they will no longer fight,
I have even found that these same people become more close to each other eventually and become very very accepting of other people.
Suggest a friend button:
I use the Suggest a friend button, to send people of different school of thoughts to each other, and that means, that if they add each other, slowly they see the story which was being told by the other side to their friends, and now they are seeing what the ENEMY was saying about them, and slowly and the ENEMY is seeing what they are saying, thus both side’s become cautious of how to phrase words as all of a sudden, there are no secrets, and both parties actually UNDERSTAND each other.
I do this by making list’s of different people of different subjects in my facebook, and then after labelling one person of a particular school of thought, i would open their profile and send the other school of thought person to them.
I also write question on my wall, which would be of an extreme where people would probably talk about,or it would create friction among them, Or provoke them to come on my wall and talk about this i.e., Who do you think does the Land of Israel belong to now ? Jews or Muslims Or Christians or …. ?
When this happens, people scream, yell, bring their side of the proof’s and as i said eventually become more tolerant and accepting of the other party.
I would say that above is probably the reason, I have been spending so much time on Facebook,
Using Social Media for defusing a problem:
What is a problem ? What is Hate ?
Hate come’s from disliking something for over a period of time, as the idea of dis likeness deposit’s in people’s minds, slowly and gradually it becomes and converts into hate.
People who hate something, block their own mind towards listening anything on that subject, and not just that subject most of the times we will see that the same people also are blocked on many other subjects or dislike them also.
I found people who are afraid of one thing, they are also afraid of other similar things.
For example i found people who are afraid of Muslims, Jews, media, govt, they were all mostly the same people who found problems of some kind in all these things, not just one, and it all comes from Fear.
How to cure it ?
Just like a puss in a pimple, which needs to come out, similarly if we can channelize this hate to come out some way where the person can feel that HE SHOWED IT to the other party, hate also defuses it self,
I found that when i let people talk bad or take out what they hate in some form on my Facebook wall, they argue and they argue, and if they do not block each other, i have found that they become tolerant of that person eventually, as they see that that person is not that bad as they thought they were, and eventually they become accepting of that person or ideology
I have been creating war’s on my Facebook wall, i would write something on my wall as a question, and people of both sides would jump in and start talking and usually 2 or 4 or 6 people start talking and taking sides and they keep on presenting their point of views, and eventually they end up becoming Facebook friends, which changes everything in my opinion, as now their tank of hate is all of a sudden empty, and they are cured and they will no longer fight,
I have even found that these same people become more close to each other eventually and become very very accepting of other people.
Suggest a friend button:
I use the Suggest a friend button, to send people of different school of thoughts to each other, and that means, that if they add each other, slowly they see the story which was being told by the other side to their friends, and now they are seeing what the ENEMY was saying about them, and slowly and the ENEMY is seeing what they are saying, thus both side’s become cautious of how to phrase words as all of a sudden, there are no secrets, and both parties actually UNDERSTAND each other.
I do this by making list’s of different people of different subjects in my facebook, and then after labelling one person of a particular school of thought, i would open their profile and send the other school of thought person to them.
I also write question on my wall, which would be of an extreme where people would probably talk about,or it would create friction among them, Or provoke them to come on my wall and talk about this i.e., Who do you think does the Land of Israel belong to now ? Jews or Muslims Or Christians or …. ?
When this happens, people scream, yell, bring their side of the proof’s and as i said eventually become more tolerant and accepting of the other party.
I would say that above is probably the reason, I have been spending so much time on Facebook,
A draft of something I am working on
Using Social Media for defusing a problem:
What is a problem ? What is Hate ?
Hate come’s from disliking something for over a period of time, as the idea of dis likeness deposit’s in people’s minds, slowly and gradually it becomes and converts into hate.
People who hate something, block their own mind towards listening anything on that subject, and not just that subject most of the times we will see that the same people also are blocked on many other subjects or dislike them also.
I found people who are afraid of one thing, they are also afraid of other similar things.
For example i found people who are afraid of Muslims, Jews, media, govt, they were all mostly the same people who found problems of some kind in all these things, not just one, and it all comes from Fear.
How to cure it ?
Just like a puss in a pimple, which needs to come out, similarly if we can channelize this hate to come out some way where the person can feel that HE SHOWED IT to the other party, hate also defuses it self,
I found that when i let people talk bad or take out what they hate in some form on my Facebook wall, they argue and they argue, and if they do not block each other, i have found that they become tolerant of that person eventually, as they see that that person is not that bad as they thought they were, and eventually they become accepting of that person or ideology
I have been creating war’s on my Facebook wall, i would write something on my wall as a question, and people of both sides would jump in and start talking and usually 2 or 4 or 6 people start talking and taking sides and they keep on presenting their point of views, and eventually they end up becoming Facebook friends, which changes everything in my opinion, as now their tank of hate is all of a sudden empty, and they are cured and they will no longer fight,
I have even found that these same people become more close to each other eventually and become very very accepting of other people.
Suggest a friend button:
I use the Suggest a friend button, to send people of different school of thoughts to each other, and that means, that if they add each other, slowly they see the story which was being told by the other side to their friends, and now they are seeing what the ENEMY was saying about them, and slowly and the ENEMY is seeing what they are saying, thus both side’s become cautious of how to phrase words as all of a sudden, there are no secrets, and both parties actually UNDERSTAND each other.
I do this by making list’s of different people of different subjects in my facebook, and then after labelling one person of a particular school of thought, i would open their profile and send the other school of thought person to them.
I also write question on my wall, which would be of an extreme where people would probably talk about,or it would create friction among them, Or provoke them to come on my wall and talk about this i.e., Who do you think does the Land of Israel belong to now ? Jews or Muslims Or Christians or …. ?
When this happens, people scream, yell, bring their side of the proof’s and as i said eventually become more tolerant and accepting of the other party.
I would say that above is probably the reason, I have been spending so much time on Facebook,
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