My prophet taught me that anger is haram. He taught me to forgive rather than to avenge. My prophet was stoned in the valley of ta'if yet he still prayed for those who stoned him. He did not take revenge. That woman who used to throw garbage at our prophet. My prophet never said anything to her. That old woman who was leaving mecca because of the prophet and prophet helped her with her luggage was cursing the prophet the whole time but the prophet didnt say anything. When a kafir was abusing hadhrat abu bakr and hadhrat abu bakr was quiet, the prophet kept smiling. When hadhrat abu bakr replied to that kafir, the prophet left and later told abu bakr that when he wasnt replying, an angel was doing so for him. You can call me cool or uncool. I dont care. I am only trying to follow the ways of my prophet. Mariam Batool Qazi