My suggestion most who are stuggling in life with children is to not send your children to only study but please please please send them to work also for a few hours a day, for a few months per business, and let them change job's so they get trained in differnt worldly trade's so they know what life is all about, study online on site's like edx.org coursera.org at a very very young age, and build on their confidence and problem solving, and positiveness skills. Rehan Allahwala