Our reflection cannot be seen in boiling water...the same way...in a state of anger we are not able to see things clearly...anyone can become angry...that is easy ...but to be angry with the right person at the right time and for the right purpose and in the right way...that is not within everyone's power & that is not easy...so always keep cool...it has its invisible benefits...having someone who understands us is a great blessing for ourselves…being someone who understands others is a great blessing to others. Rani Wemel