The Taboo of 2nd marriage and our culture or cult....! #ZAtalks #WhatsYourStory #Share Starting this conversation is even controversial before the start as somehow we have come to a point where the key board warriors and cultural owners start branding it sinful. The moderate become liberal fundamentalists and the religious become emotional and families become intolerant. Even murmuring the word "2nnnnd maaariagggeeee" can give you stares as if you are haunted or possessed by Ghosts. Posting this alone makes you prone to several risks and threats 😛 #BringItOn In a society where there are millions of sisters waiting to be wed, to find the right person, and million more widows with orphans, and a society where men can easily afford it too are scared or have other relations. Why ? What is stopping them ? What culture is that ? So, I have several married friends who have the Ssssh word "girl friend" with all sort of relations and when I asked, why don't you marry them... "Yaar, the family will isolate me and society will look at me if I have done a major sin".. having heard this, I asked, what you are currently doing is not sinful ? and another friend who has secretly married and has kids for past many years and living happily, but not disclosed to family said "if I tell, both my life and marriages will be screwed. My family will abandon me and I love my kids". and that statement "ekk sambhalee nahin jaatee, doosree keh khawab daykho (can't handle one and dreaming of 2nd)" with all shots being fired in all directions at you with a killer stare 😠 and yet we have several families looking for the right #single man. Countless sisters wandering, and many widows misused misguided mistreated by society. and, If you are married, the chances are almost zero to none that some family will consider you as the right bachelor. So who's fault is it..? The society, the family system or the culture of sub continent we inherited for last 200 years where in, the hindu culture a 2nd marriage was considered a deep sin and a shameful act ? Or is it our sisters mindset, who can not see a 2nd woman as they deem it *******. But are ok to know that their hubby has several girl friends ? Sisters who with the name of 2nd marriage go into a comma and the thought alone of sharing their husband drains them out to a point of no return. and our religious female lot is even more scarier with ready to sting even at the slightest sound of word 2nd 😁 So is it their fault ? Whose fault is it ? and I took that leap of telling my friend's wife... "bhabi, app iss kee doosre shadi karwa dain (get him married 2nd time) and she replied, (bhai, mayray hubby ko choorain, pehlay app uncle kee tu karwain (pls leave my husband alone, get your Dad married 1st) and aftwr that day, I am not very welcome in their home 🤔 So let's #hearYourStory and your views if your dare enough...! P.S... now pls don't start msging me again, asking my marital status and inclinations. Cuz, if she reads it, I am #Dead....! Disclaimer: Above post is for discussion only and to understand the mindset and culture of sub continent; and not to hurt anyone's sentiments or to encourage anyone for 2nd marriage. Pls evaluate your own situation and assess all risks involved before taking any decision. Begum ka danda buhat bhaaree hota hay and it moves like maula jutt... 😀 So who are the courageous men to share this or tag their friends on their walls ~ at their own risks. #Culture or #Cult... #1st or #2nd ... #TheSagaContinues Via @zeeshan Zeshan Afzal