I may think a honey bee as something that bites only, if I dont learn enough about it.

Rehan Allahwala

Turkish proverb: When the axe came into the forest, trees said, Dont worry honey, the handle is one of us. "

Today it was the most PACKED Airport Line in Karachi I have ever seen, However the Emirates staff was as usual Amazing and helped me out as I had no luggage and I did online checking.

Next to my seat, I met a gentleman who works for Karachi Local Government, He told me he works there, but he has so much time, that he has another full time job, He had done Umra last week and this week he is going to honey moon with his wife in Dubai.

I thought what a wonderful man to do all this, he had a beard also so I thought he is a good muslim.

Knowing this, I asked him, How is it possible to do a private job, and yet also do a government job ? He said it is a govt job, so he goes 6 or so times a month, and that is enough, as he is honest and does not take bribe nor gives, thus he does not go, so he does not have to do more bribing !

I scratched my head, and pulled up the courage to ask another question, So brother please tell me how is it honest to collect salary for a month and show up only 6 to 7 days, and What would you tell Allah at the Day of Judgement ?

He smiled and said, I have an answer for him, and I will tell him that !

I started wondering, what that answer may be, yet i was not able to stop my self, so I took out a business card, Gave it to him and said, Brother I would LOVE to hear that answer, as I think if someone at your home who worked for you, shows up for 6 days a month, and demands a month’s salary, You may want to let go of him.

His answer was , it is a government job, and everyone does like this !

I asked again, So are you going to be questionable about their life at day of judgement of only about your self ?

He smiled, and said nothing.

I again being the person I am asked, so why do you not resign from this job, This way you do not have to worry about all this problem, you have another full time job, and Allah in Quran promises to provide you with food, and he also tells us that he WILL reward us from places that he does not expect, He said that is true, the trip to Dubai is also Gifted to him by someone.

I smiled and apologized to him if I had hurter his feeling, or was being blunt, Do forgive me, but I urged again, to urge him self and his friends who are honest to RESIGN or NOT take salary if he really want’s to see a wonderful Country.

I Also urged him to go around the malls and city of Dubai and take a dream back with him to help build something huge back home also.

Learning from this: I urge again all the people to think of what they will say at the day of judgement as they will only be asked about them selves first NOT how corrupt their bosses or peers are, ONLY THEM and if they can not , then for the sake of Allah, Leave the job and find Halal income, as that IS also a Jihad.

Have a lovely week ahead :)

Rehan Allahwala

Is anyone running a honey farm around Karachi ? - Need some guidance

Please enjoy this little story I got from a friend: "When I was a kid, Mum liked to make food for dinner & I remember one night in particular when she had made dinner after a long, hard day at work. On that evening, Mum placed a plate of bread, jam and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet, all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smiled at my Mum and asked me how my day was at school. I dont remember what I told him that night, but I do remember hearing my Mum apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And Ill never forget what he said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits." Later that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your mum had a long hard day at work today and shes really tired. And besides... A burnt biscuit never hurt anyone but harsh words do!" You know, life is full of imperfect things...and imperfect people. Im not the best. What Ive learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults and choosing to celebrate each others differences, is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing and lasting relationship. So...please pass me a biscuit. And yes, the burnt one will do just fine! And please pass this along to someone who has enriched your life...I just did! Life is too short to wake up with regrets... Love the people who treat you right and have compassion for the ones who dont. ENJOY LIFE NOW - IT HAS AN EXPIRY DATE"

Language and tone we speak in is a tool, some use it as a knife, some as an axe, some as honey and some as bread. The results we all get are based on how we have learned how to use it, you can unlearn and relearn to get better results !

Rehan Allahwala

"Bees dont waste their time explaining to flies that honey is better than ****"

Read that again !

Via Aqib Mehmood

Rehan Allahwala bhai,
Kyun k humain sikhaya hee Darna gya hy.
Usay sari zindagi UNLEARN nhi kar patay.

1. Har traf sey khaof, school mien fail honey ka, 2. bad mien unemployment ka,
3. Aur to aur jahan Sakoon milna tha Religion mein wahan bhi dozakh ka khaof dikhaya gya.

Halankay ye aisay bhi sikhaya ja skta tha.

1. Parho gye to Shaor aye ga aur barray barray kam kar sko gaye. Dunya aur akhirat mien naam ho ga.
2. Parhai kar Lee to zarori nhi jobb dhondo, balkay Acha hy apna kam shuru karo.
3. Islam ki talemat pe amal karo to dunya mien bhi bhalayi aur akhirat bhi kamyab.

A wife asked her husband, “Honey, do you think I’m pretty or beautiful?”

He replied, “I think you’re pretty beautiful.”

Happy aging

For a natural, youthful glow, several home remedies and practices can help improve skin health, boost elasticity, and brighten your complexion. Here are some that can be effective with consistent use:

1. Hydration and Diet

• Drink Plenty of Water: Aim for at least 8 glasses a day to keep your skin hydrated, which helps reduce fine lines.
• Antioxidant-Rich Foods: Incorporate berries, leafy greens, nuts, and seeds into your diet. They combat oxidative stress that ages skin.
• Healthy Fats: Avocados, olive oil, and fish (like salmon) contain essential fats that promote skin elasticity.

2. Natural Face Masks

• Honey and Lemon Mask: Honey moisturizes, while lemon brightens and exfoliates. Mix 1 tablespoon honey with a few drops of lemon juice. Apply for 10-15 minutes, then rinse with lukewarm water.
• Aloe Vera Gel: Aloe vera boosts collagen and hydration. Apply fresh aloe vera gel to your face and let it sit for 10 minutes before rinsing.
• Yogurt and Turmeric Mask: Yogurt has lactic acid for gentle exfoliation, and turmeric has anti-inflammatory properties. Mix 1 tablespoon of yogurt with a pinch of turmeric and leave it on your face for 10-15 minutes.

3. Gentle Exfoliation

• Sugar Scrub: Mix sugar with a little olive or coconut oil for a natural scrub. Use this once a week to remove dead skin cells.
• Oatmeal Scrub: Mix ground oatmeal with honey or yogurt for a gentle exfoliator suitable for sensitive skin.

4. Moisturizing and Skin Care

• Coconut or Olive Oil: Dab a small amount under your eyes and on dry spots. These oils contain antioxidants and fatty acids that improve skin elasticity.
• Rose Water Toner: Rose water is hydrating, calming, and slightly tightening. Use it as a toner by spritzing or applying it with a cotton pad.
• Vitamin E: Break open a vitamin E capsule and apply the oil directly to fine lines and dry spots before bed.

5. Massage and Facial Exercises

• Facial Massage: Massage your face in gentle, upward motions. This improves blood circulation, which helps with skin tone and elasticity.
• Facial Yoga: Exercises that target the face muscles can firm and tone the skin. For example, puffing your cheeks and holding, or raising your eyebrows and holding for a few seconds.

6. Lifestyle Habits

• Adequate Sleep: Getting 7-8 hours of sleep allows your skin to repair and rejuvenate.
• Regular Exercise: Exercise increases blood flow and brings oxygen and nutrients to your skin.
• Sun Protection: Use sunscreen daily, even if you’re indoors, as UV rays can accelerate skin aging.

7. Green Tea Ice Cubes

• Brew green tea, let it cool, and freeze it in ice cube trays. Gently rub a cube over your face for a quick, refreshing anti-inflammatory boost.

These remedies can improve skin texture and reduce signs of aging with time. For best results, be consistent and allow at least a few weeks to see changes.